someone told me," don't try so hard, as when u fall, you will be more disappointed... so take it easy."

human beings are strange animals. many a times we laugh at the mistakes of others. " see i told you so." as if someone's failure equals to one's own success.

most ppl will not understand why one will spend almost all his life savings on a passion which is a pain in the ass to all drivers on the road.
god created many beautiful things in the world. why concentrate on one?


Andrew made a valid pt yest that at end of it all... do not let someone's decision be your regret for life.
If one is to live by the laws of another... no chance to express the spectrum of colours in him, wats the pt of living? in the shadow of another

so this is me,

someone who does not make himself attached to anyone or anything

someone who is selfish in my father's eyes

someone who somehow or rather( not that i choose to), nv take the normal routes in life

today in the news, a columnist qoute us as the new breed of singaporeans who do not appreciate the things around me, we do not sit down and smile when we all have a roof over our head, we do not see the importance of the PAP and what they have done for us all these years.

some peers i know are ignorant by nature, some are book smart but can nv apply this knowledge in life, others feel that there are other more impt things to think about, but amongst the 1001 untrue things in the article, there is one valid pt, we will nv place our votes till the last min.

i wonder why the older generations like to view us as ppl who take things for granted... as ppl who use knowledge in the wrong ways
yes we do not keep our virginity till our marriage
yes we do not see anything wrong in doing things the unconventional way

we are the children of the new evolution
who follow the flow of gobalisation

we think
we voice our happiness
we no longer keep these thoughts inept in us

we have reasons behind wat we do


our way of life is directly opposite to your retro years


I don't know what this looks like to the people who are looking in on us and our situation, but as someone once told me, only people who care about you will want to know the reasons and the circumstances before passing on judgment.

there is no right, no wrong to what we do today.


And so, I am contented that my friends cared enough to know why I did what I did. Once they heard what I had to say, they told me, "As long as you are happy